Every year brings more lessons of the heart. I learn more about how to be a better mother, woman, wife and friend.
There are always ups and downs and always revaluations with the hard times. This time of year makes me remember those we have lost and how fortunate I am to have been blessed with the friends and family who are part of my life.
I always try to see the positive in things, as I m naturally a very happy and light-hearted person. However, this year brought on so much anxiety from World Events to things happening right at home. I found myself at times, struggling to simply go grocery shopping without being ‘on guard’ to those around me. It was an awakening like I had never had before and one that brought on instinctual ‘mother-bear’ reactions. (Some of which were not appropriate or loving.)
But the New Year offers hope that we can start fresh and in some respects, start over. It gives us a chance to wipe the slate clean and start painting a new picture of what we want out of life. It is a time to set goals, to reflect on the past and change our path so history does not repeat itself. A time to forgive those that hurt you so that you can release the negativity in your life enough to start healing and moving on.
Surround yourself with those you love and friends who reassure you of a job well done. Rid yourself of those who make you less then you are capable of being. Don’t surrender your dreams for anyone….chase them whole-heartedly with those that love you lifting you up with encouragement.
Love yourself this year. You are doing great things – even though the weight of the world may be resting itself on top of your shoulders. Be yourself.
You are special.
You are an individual, whom some may not fully understand. Don’t let their fear come across as bullying – love those who cross you so that they may get to know you instead of misunderstand you.
You are one-of-a-kind. You are loved.
May this New Year bring you more love, more happiness and contentment like you have never had before. God Bless.